September 2026 Minister’s Message

A Dharma Connection Across 125 Years

From the high school in Japan to Obon at San Mateo Buddhist Temple

Rev. Chiemi Onikura Bly

 

On August 8, San Mateo Buddhist Temple held our annual Obon Odori. This year’s Obon
was especially meaningful to me because we welcomed students from Chikushi Jogakuen
High School in Fukuoka, Japan—my own alma mater. Their visit brought together a
remarkable Dharma connection that began more than 125 years ago.

Rev. Tetsuei Mizuki, a Jodo Shinshu Hongwanji-ha minister from Fukuoka, was the founder
of Chikushi Jogakuen. In December 1900, Rev. Mizuki came to San Francisco to lead
Hongwanji’s Buddhist mission in North America. According to Chikushi Jogakuen’s history,
while working among Japanese immigrants, he became deeply aware of the differences in
education and social status between women in Japan and the United States. In particular,
witnessing the difficult circumstances faced by Japanese women in America convinced him
of the importance of women’s education.

After returning to Japan, Rev. Mizuki established Chikushi Jogakuen in Fukuoka in 1907, a
girls’ school founded on the teachings of Jodo Shinshu. Only three years later, in 1910, San
Mateo Buddhist Temple was established as a branch of the San Francisco Buddhist Church.
Today, 116 years later, our temple continues to be a place where the Nembutsu teaching is
heard and shared.

More than a century after Rev. Mizuki’s journey, I became a student at the school he founded. Through another unexpected connection, I eventually came to the United States, became a Jodo Shinshu minister, and now have the opportunity to share the Buddha-Dharma with the Sangha at San Mateo Buddhist Temple.

Then came August 8, 2026.

That morning, I visited the Japanese Cemetery in Colma for our Obon cemetery service. There, I noticed Rev. Mizuki’s name inscribed on a BCA stone monument. I was deeply moved. In my heart, I spoke to him: “Mizuki Sensei, the students from the school you founded are here. They have come all the way from Fukuoka, and tonight they will join the Obon Odori at San Mateo Buddhist Temple.”

That evening, I watched the students from Chikushi Jogakuen join the circle and dance together with our San Mateo community.

Rev. Mizuki had crossed the Pacific from Fukuoka to San Francisco in 1900. What he experienced here helped inspire him to establish a school for women after returning to Japan. More than a century later, students from that school crossed the same Pacific in the other direction and joined us at Obon. And there I was, one of his school’s former students, now serving as a Jodo Shinshu minister in the Bay Area.

When I think about the history of Japan, the history of Japanese Americans, and the history of our Buddhist temples in America, I am reminded that none of us arrived at this moment by ourselves. Countless people before us built temples, established communities, educated young people, preserved the teachings, and created connections without knowing where those connections might lead generations later.

In Buddhism, we call such connections go-En—the causes and conditions that bring our lives together. When those connections lead us to encounter the Buddha-Dharma, we can speak of Butsu-En—our Dharma connection with the Buddha and the teachings.

Standing there that day, I felt profound gratitude for all those who came before us. I also felt a renewed responsibility as a minister: to receive the Dharma that has been protected and passed down to us, and to help pass it on to those who come after us.

The connections that brought us together did not begin with us, and they should not end with us.

I wanted to share this experience with our San Mateo Sangha because you, too, are part of this continuing Dharma connection. May we treasure the connections we have received, encounter the Nembutsu teaching through them, and together pass the Buddha-Dharma on to the generations yet to come.

 

Gassho

 

August 2026 Minister’s Message

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Rev. Chiemi Onikura-Bly

 

From the Temple Bazaar to the Nembutsu at Home

Discovering the Spirit of Ondobo and Ondogyo

 

On June 28 and 29, I had the privilege of participating in my first San Mateo Buddhist Temple Bazaar. Before coming to California, I had heard many wonderful stories about this annual tradition. What I witnessed was far more than a fundraiser. It was a living expression of the Jodo Shinshu spirit.

For days before the bazaar opened, volunteers of every generation worked side by side. They prepared food, sorted donations, set up booths and the venue, welcomed visitors, and cleaned up long after the event had ended. There was laughter, hard work, and countless quiet acts of kindness that often went unnoticed.

As I watched everyone working together, one phrase continually came to my mind: Ondobo and Ondogyo (御同 朋・御同行)—fellow travelers on the Nembutsu path. Rather than seeing people as followers or disciples, Shinran Shonin cherished them as Ondobo and Ondogyo,- companions walking the Nembutsu path together, all embraced by Amida Buddha’s Primal Vow.

Rennyo Shonin, the Eighth Monshu (Head Priest) of Hongwanji, later described Shinran Shonin’s attitude in these words:

“Shinran Shonin respectfully addressed people as Ondobo and Ondogyo.”

The honorific “On” ( 御 ) expresses deep respect. It reminds us that we meet one another not as people above or below each other, but as fellow travelers who receive the same boundless compassion of Amida Buddha. That spirit crossed the Pacific with the Nembutsu teaching and continues to live here at San Mateo Buddhist Temple. I felt it everywhere during the bazaar.

My heartfelt thanks go to everyone who volunteered before, during, and after the Bazaar. Your generosity and joyful spirit showed me the true meaning of Ondobo and Ondogyo. Thank you for welcoming me into this wonderful Sangha.

The bazaar is, of course, an essential fundraiser. As our temple buildings continue to age and our Amida Buddha statue and the Naijin altar furnishings undergo refurbishment in Japan, financial support is essential to preserve our temple and pass it on to future generations. Equally important, however, are the relationships that sustain our Sangha. Our greatest treasure is our shared commitment to care for one another and to ensure that this temple remains a place where the Nembutsu is heard for generations to come.

One experience during the bazaar especially touched my heart. Many Buddhist altars, ritual implements, nenju, and other sacred items found new homes. This was far more than cleaning out storage rooms. These objects had been treasured in the homes of earlier generations before being entrusted to the temple. Through the bazaar, they found new homes, continuing to connect people with the Buddha-Dharma.

Six hundred years ago, Rennyo Shonin hand-wrote countless Myogo scrolls (bearing the Name of Amida Buddha). Those scrolls gathered people around the Nembutsu and helped establish many temples throughout Japan, including my own family temple in Fukuoka. In much the same way, every altar or Buddhist object leaving San Mateo Buddhist Temple creates a new connection with this Sangha.

As a minister, I sincerely hope more families will welcome a Buddhist altar into their homes. Previous generations of Shin Buddhists gathered before their altars each morning and evening to recite the sutras and say the Nembutsu. While modern life may not allow the same routine, even a small home altar or a Myogo scroll can remind us of Amida Buddha’s compassion in daily life. It offers opportunities to pause, place our hands together in gassho, and say Namo Amida Butsu—not only on Sundays at the temple, but throughout the week at home.

A home altar does not have to be large. A Myogo scroll and a few simple altar fittings are enough to create a place for listening to the Dharma. We have preserved many altar accessories that are available for future use. If you have ever considered creating a Buddhist space in your home, I would be honored to help you find an arrangement that fits your home and your family.

The future of San Mateo Buddhist Temple will certainly require financial support. Even more importantly, it will depend on the spirit of Ondobo and Ondogyo—people carrying the Nembutsu from the temple into their homes and everyday lives. May the Nembutsu continue to live in our temple, in our homes, and in the hearts of generations to come.

 

In Gassho

Bright Stars in the Night Sky

I offer my heartfelt sympathies to all those affected by the devastating wildfires that have taken lives, destroyed homes, and shattered communities in the Los Angeles area at the start of this year.  As I reflect upon this heartbreaking disaster and consider how a person of the Nembutsu might respond, I find guidance in the life of Lady Takeko Kujo, who realized birth in the Pure Land 97 years ago this month on Feb. 7, 1928.   Lady Kujo’s life was cut short due to an illness contracted while working to improve the lives of the poor in the Tokyo slums following the great Kanto Earthquake and subsequent fires that ravaged the city in 1923.

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How to Catch a Snake

Welcome to the Year of the Snake! Just as the various domestic and wild animals depicted in the Chinese Zodiac have their own limitations and strengths, each year presents unique challenges and opportunities.

As a child, I dreamed of becoming a zoologist. I can still remember tracing my finger around the twelve animals of the Chinese zodiac on the placemat from the House of Lo Chinese Restaurant in my hometown of Buffalo, Minnesota. Each animal was captured in a tiny picture, and I would linger over my favorites – the powerful tiger, the majestic dragon, and especially the clever monkey. But when I finally found my own birth year, 1977, my excitement turned to dismay. “The Year of the… Snake? Ew!”

I was reminded of this experience a few years ago when I brought home a calendar from a local Chinese restaurant here in San Mateo to show my own children, who also loved animals. My older son Ryoma proudly knew that he was born in the Year of the Rabbit. His younger brother Shoma, who was four at the time, took one look at the calendar and immediately recognized his favorite animal.

“What’s this bull?” Shoma asked.

“That’s the Year of the Ox,” I replied.

“I’m an Ox!”

“Let’s see… 2013…” I paused, calculating. “Oh! Just like daddy, you were born in the year of the snake!”

“No! I’m an Ox!” Shoma insisted.

“Well let’s have a look,” I said. “If you had been born in the Year of the Ox 2009, you would be eight years old now, not four.”

“I’m eight! I was born in the Year of the Ox!” Shoma declared.

Then his older brother piped up, “Then you would be the older brother because I’m six, and six is less than eight.”

Shoma was delighted.  “I was born in the Year of the Ox!  I am the big brother and Ryoma is the little brother!”

As you might imagine, things went downhill from there. Ryoma protested that Shoma was lying about his age, and before I could intervene, Shoma had climbed onto his brother’s back and wrapped him in a jujitsu-style leg lock.

It seems that around age four is when we first begin to manipulate reality to suit our convenience. This habit becomes deeply engrained, growing more sophisticated as we mature into adulthood. We see this plainly in adult society, where our minds become increasingly subtle and adept at twisting our perception of reality to match our desires.

The Buddha recognized the human tendency to selectively listen and interpret what is heard according to one’s own convenience, so he cautioned that one should approach study of the Dharma teachings with the same vigilance necessary for catching a poisonous snake. In the Alagaddupama Sutta, the Buddha taught that a foolish person will try to catch a snake by its tail, where it can easily coil around and deliver a painful, or even deadly, bite. Likewise, those who study the teachings of Buddha only to affirm their own attitudes and views hastily latch onto a mistaken understanding that ultimately causes more harm and suffering for themselves and others.

In contrast, a wise person knows the power of the snake’s venom and, with humility and careful attention, uses a forked stick to hold the snake down before carefully grasping it by its neck, so that the snake is not able to deliver a venomous bite. Even though the snake may coil and wrap its body around the arm that holds it, it will not cause pain and suffering. When one approaches the study of the Buddha’s teachings with similar humility and careful attention, the light of the Dharma will dispel one’s mistaken views, illuminating the path to a life free of suffering.           

Best wishes for the coming year! Let us stay safe and study the Dharma with careful attention.

Namo Amida Butsu

Finding the Middle Way

In the month of December, we celebrate the Bodhi Day Service commemorating the day that Siddhartha Gautama attained awakening and became a Buddha.  Siddhartha was born a prince, and his father King Suddhodana gave him all the things that a person could desire in the hope that he would love the royal life and happily assume the role of king in the future.

Siddhartha was given three palaces, one suitable for each of the three seasons of winter, summer, and the monsoon season, so that he could enjoy comfort all year round.  What’s more, during the rainy season when he was stuck indoors, he was surrounded by beautiful dancers.  The clothing he wore was made of the finest fabrics from the Kasi Kingdom, and each meal was a delicious feast.

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A Message from the Buddha

We will be holding our annual Eitaikyo Service on Sunday, November 17 at 9:30 a.m. with special Guest Speaker Rev. Dean Koyama.  “Eitaikyo” literally means “perpetual sutra.” It is a shortened way of referring to “a service in which we chant sutras in perpetuity to honor those who have left this world before us.”  The funds to conduct the Eitaikyo Service come from donations made when an individual’s name is added to the Eitaikyo Register. Traditionally, Eitaikyo donations have been made by the family of the deceased when a loved one passes away.  This practice of dana, or generosity, in grateful memory of a loved one is what has allowed this service to be conducted without interruption since the establishment of our temple.  The Eitaikyo service will continue to be conducted as long as our temple exists.  By continuing the Eitaikyo service, we ensure that our temple will remain a place to gather and hear the Dharma into the future without end.

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The Courageous Women of the Nembutsu

At the San Mateo Buddhist Temple, October is the month in which we celebrate Buddhist women of the Nembutsu, including Shinran Shonin’s wife Eshinni and their youngest daughter Kakushinni, who worked tirelessly to ensure that the joy of the Nembutsu would be passed on to future generations.  We also remember Lady Takeko Kujo, who promoted the well-being of all people at a time of social upheaval as Japan entered the modern word, Lady Yoshiko Ohtani, who provided much-needed inspiration and guidance for Jodo Shinshu Buddhists throughout the world during the period of healing and rebuilding following World War II, and all the deceased members of the San Mateo Buddhist Women’s Association. 

The courageous leadership of Buddhist women in our tradition can be seen in earliest days of the flowering of the Pure Land teaching in Japan.  Our founder Shinran Shonin’s teacher Honen Shonin taught that by simply entrusting in Amida Buddha’s compassionate vow to liberate all beings and reciting the Nembutsu, it was possible for any person to break free from the cycle of birth and death through birth in Amida Buddha’s realm of peace and bliss.  At that time in Japan, many mainstream Buddhist teachers taught that people who engaged in professions such as fishing and leatherworking, those who had broken monastic precepts, and women in general were so burdened with negative karma that they would surely remain bound to the cycle of birth and death at the end of their present life. 

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Leading with Generosity and Patience

In September, we welcome the autumn equinox season of Ohigan as a time to reflect on the direction of our lives.  Here in the United States, we also find ourselves reflecting on the direction of our nation as we enter the heart of another election season.  When I consider the choices before me as a voter, I recall the Buddha’s wish for all people to live in a country where “Peace and harmony reign throughout the land. . . The land is prosperous and the people live in peace, so there is no need to use soldiers and weapons. People respect virtue, cultivate benevolence, and diligently observe propriety and humility.”  (The Sutra on the Buddha of Immeasurable Life, Section 40)

In describing the virtues of an admirable leader, Sakyamuni Buddha once told the story of a troop of monkeys that lived in a banyan fig tree, led by a wise and compassionate monkey king.  The tree bore ample and delicious fruit and the monkeys lived comfortably, never needing to worry about what they would eat.

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At Peace in the Dance

If the purpose of Buddhist practice is to let the ego fall away and realize liberation from attachment to “me” and “mine,” then I am hard-pressed to think of a better ground for this practice than Obon dancing.  Obon dancing is not a show; it is a Buddhist tradition through which the Dharma transforms our lives quite outside our own efforts.

In the midst of this world where there is so much conflict, Obon dancing is a powerful way to bring harmony into our lives.  I recall an Obon dance I took part in during my early years as a minister.  As the dancing was about to begin, our dance instructors dressed in beautiful summer yukata gathered in a small circle at the center of the church parking lot.  A crowd quickly gathered around them.  About half of the crowd was made up of experienced Obon dancers who had come to join the dancing.  However, it was many of the attendees’ first encounter with Obon dancing, and not knowing what to expect, they jostled their way toward the center in anticipation of a performance by those beautifully dressed dancers.

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Everyone is Welcome in the Nembutsu

I hope you can find time this month to take a little break from everyday responsibilities like school and work to enjoy leisure time with family and friends.  Summer breaks can be a great opportunity to reflect on the direction of our lives and consider new possibilities.  However, there are times when we get so bogged down in our daily responsibilities that we cannot find even a minute or two to pause and reflect on the lives we are living.  Sakyamuni Buddha had particularly deep concern for those who were struggling to find their way in life and actively sought out those who were most in need of compassionate care.  The following story from The Sutra on Wisdom and Folly illustrates the patient persistence of the Buddha:

At one time the Buddha was dwelling at Jetavana in the country of Sravasti.  At that time, many people lived inside the walled city of Shravasti.  There were few lavatories, so most people went outside the city to urinate and defecate.  There were also wealthy people of high status, who did not venture outside the city walls.  They would use containers for toilets and hire people to take them outside the city.

There was one man named Nītha who was extremely poor and destitute.  He had nowhere to go and earned a meager living taking out the toilet pots.  The Buddha came to know of his situation and resolved to help him.  He instructed Ananda that they would go into the walled city with the intention of bringing Nītha out and saving him.  When they arrived at the city, they happened upon Nītha carrying a clay pot filled to the brim with filth on his way out to dispose of it.

When Nītha saw the Buddha, he was extremely ashamed and went back to find another road by which he could discreetly leave the city.  Again, he saw the Buddha and was doubly embarrassed, so he went back again trying to run away.  In his haste, he bumped the clay pot filled with filth against a wall, where it shattered dousing his body in urine and feces.  He was deeply ashamed and could not bear to meet the Buddha.

At that time, the Buddha went straight to Nītha and said to him, “Would you like to leave this life and join the Sangha, or not?”

Nītha replied, “The Buddha is more honored than a king adorned with gold jewelry.  You are surrounded by disciples who are all of noble birth.  I am the most destitute and despised.  How could I join them and be ordained?”

The World-Honored One told him, “My Dharma is pure and marvelous.  It is like pure water that can completely wash away any defilements.  Moreover, it is like a great fire that can burn anything.  Large or small, beloved or despised, it can burn them all up.  My Dharma is vast without boundary.  Among the poor and the rich, male and female, those who practice it all bring an end to their various desires.” 

Hearing these words, Nītha felt that he could trust the Buddha completely and awakened the desire to leave his life of destitution and join the Sangha.  The Buddha instructed Ananda to take Nītha outside the city to the edge of a great river, where he cleansed his body.  Once he was cleaned up, they proceeded to Jetavana so the Buddha could teach the sutras of the Dharma, the principle that all people suffer, renouncing birth-and-death, and that nirvana is lasting peace.  Nītha quickly understood the meaning of the teachings and clearly saw his path to a life of peace and ease of mind.  Joining his palms Nītha faced the Buddha and asked to be ordained as a monk.  The Buddha immediately welcomed him into the Sangha.

(The Sutra on Wisdom and Folly (Xiangujing), Fascicle 6, Chapter 30, translation by Henry Adams)

The Buddha welcomes us just as we are.  There is no need for shame and guilt.  Recognizing the difficulties of life in this world, the Buddha only wishes to help all who are struggling and guide us on the path to peace of mind.   Just as Sakyamuni Buddha called out to Nītha when he was exhausted and overwhelmed, Amida Buddha calls to each of us in the words “Namo Amida Butsu.”  These words of the Nembutsu are the voice of compassion welcoming us to the Pure Land of peace and comfort.

Namo Amida Butsu