Year of the Sheep

I would like to take this opportunity to wish you a Happy New Year and thank you for your continued Dharma friendship and generous support for the San Mateo Buddhist Temple! This year we welcome the Year of the Sheep in the Chinese Zodiac. The Chinese Zodiac consists of a twelve-year cycle with each year associated with a certain animal. People born in the year of the Sheep are said to be gentle, reliable and elegant.

A variety of traditional stories are told in East Asia to explain the origins of the cycle. My favorite version tells how the Buddha called all the animals in the forest to compete in a race across a fast flowing river, with the promise that the first twelve animals to arrive would receive the honor of their own year in the calendar cycle.

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Soft and Gentle in Body and Mind

As I struggle to keep up with my two sons—one who is three and a half years old, and one who turns one this month—I am constantly facing the reality that I am not as limber and agile as I was ten years ago. As I take stock of my physical condition, the following passage from the Sutra on the Buddha of Immeasurable Life Delivered by Sakyamuni Buddha (Larger Sutra) comes to mind:

 

Sentient beings who encounter [the Light of Amida Buddha] have the three defilements* swept away, and they become soft and gentle in body and mind. They leap and dance with joy, and the good mind arises in them.

(Three Pure Land Sutras, Volume II: The Larger Sutra, p. 36-37)

 

This passage tells us that people who are touched by the light of Amida Buddha become soft and gentle in body and mind. When I get out of bed in the morning the day after I have been chasing my kids around a playground for a couple hours, my body feels stiff and cumbersome, not soft and gentle.

On the first Tuesday of each month, I look forward to spending time with long-time temple members as well as new friends at our Senior Gathering. Following a short service before the image of Amida Buddha in the Main Temple Hall, we retire the Social Hall for a morning of fun activities, conversation, a delicious lunch cooked fresh by volunteers in the temple kitchen, and a movie projected on a big screen. After everyone has gathered in the Social Hall, one of the seniors will lead the group in some simple exercises that can be done sitting in a chair to develop balance and flexibility. I like to join these exercises each month, and am always humbled to see that many of our eighty and ninety-year-old members are far more limber than I am. Several of the seniors can easily reach forward and grab their toes while sitting in a chair with their leg straightened. I have a hard enough time straightening my leg while sitting in a chair, let alone reaching for my toes.

Spending time with these inspiring seniors, I am struck by how they are soft and gentle, not just in their bodies, but in their minds as well. They always share kind smiles and friendly conversation with everyone they meet here at our temple. As I consider what it means to have a mind and body that is soft and gentle, I am reminded of the Buddhist teaching that the hard ice of self-centered thinking melts into the soft flowing water of compassion. In his Hymns on the Pure Land Masters, Shinran writes:

 

Through the benefit of the unhindered light,

We realize shinjin of vast, majestic virtues,

And the ice of our blind passions necessarily melts,

Immediately becoming water of enlightenment.

(Collected Works of Shinran, p. 371)

 

To live with shinjin, or Buddhist faith, is to receive the light of the Buddha’s wisdom as the warmth that melts the ice of self-centered thinking, so that our minds and bodies can flow freely in the water of enlightenment.

The softness of body described in the sutras is not about being able to touch your toes. True hardness of the body is the unwillingness to do things to help others simply because it is inconvenient or uncomfortable. One example might be a healthy body that is unwilling to get up to surrender its seat to an elderly passenger in a crowded train car.  A body that has become soft and gentle in the Dharma is not attached to comfort and pleasure, but rather is willing to set aside its own convenience to act freely in the world to help others—this kind of soft and gentle body can be seen in those who set aside fear and desire for comfort and travel to help those affected by the Ebola outbreak in West Africa. A body that has been softened by the light of the Buddha’s wisdom moves freely within its full capacity to help others.

*three defilements: greed, anger, and ignorance.

 

In gassho,

Eitaikyo

We will be holding our annual Eitaikyo Service on Sunday, November 9 at 11:30 a.m. with special Guest Speaker Rev. Hoshu Matsubayashi. “Eitaikyo” literally means “perpetual sutra.” It is a shortened way of referring to “a service in which we chant sutras in perpetuity to honor those who have left this world before us.” The funds to conduct the Eitaikyo Service come from donations made when an individual’s name is added to the Eitaikyo Register. Traditionally, Eitaikyo donations have been made by the family of the deceased when a loved one passes away. This practice of dana, or generosity, in grateful memory of a loved one is what has allowed this service to be conducted without interruption since the establishment of our temple. The Eitaikyo service will continue to be conducted as long as our temple exists. By continuing the Eitaikyo service, we ensure that our temple will remain a place to gather and hear the Dharma into the future without end.

If you have a family member or friend whose name is included in the San Mateo Buddhist Temple Eitaikyo Register, you may request to have their name read at the Eitaikyo Service during the chanting of the Sanbutsuge (Verses Praising the Buddha).  As each name is read, family and friends will be invited to come forward to offer incense in remembrance. On the day of the service, there will be a volunteer stationed at the entrance to the Hondo gathering names to be read. If you are unable to attend the service, but would like for us to read a name from the Eitaikyo Register aloud during the offering of incense, please contact us by phone (650) 342-2541 or e-mail (sanmateo.buddhist@gmail.com). Only the names that have been requested will be read aloud during the offering of incense. A complete list of the names in the Eitaikyo Register will be printed in the service program.

As we remember our departed friends and family at the Eitaikyo service, we reflect on their whole lives. All the difficulties they faced and all the beauty they created in this world are an expression of their wish for us to live in peace and happiness.   Hearing the names of our loved ones, we call to mind their whole lives and all the experiences they lived. When we hear their names read during the Eitaikyo Service, we hear their wish for us to abandon the life of confusion and foolishness and pursue a life of awakening. The Eitaikyo donation made at the time of passing is a way of acknowledging that wish that our departed loved one held for us and all they did on our behalf to create the circumstances that allow us to live today with joy and peace of mind. When we gather at the temple to receive the wisdom of the Dharma and take part in the perpetual chanting of the sutras at the Eitaikyo Service, we are making their wish for us a reality.

During the Eitaikyo Service, we also hear the Name of Amida Buddha in the Nembutsu, the recitation of the words “Namo Amida Butsu.” In the Name of Amida Buddha we hear the Buddha’s great wish to liberate all beings from suffering. One way of translating “Namo Amida Butsu” is “Take refuge in the Awakened One of Immeasurable Life.” We understand these words to be the very voice of the Buddha calling to us across vast time and space. To hear the words Namo Amida Butsu, is to hear the Buddha calling to us in our daily lives, encouraging us to reject a life of confusion and foolishness and direct our lives toward the realm of perfect wisdom and compassion. The Nembutsu is a shift in perspective from constantly thinking about me and what I do for others, and coming to recognize all the kindness and support that I receive from family, friends, classmates, and coworkers. We experience the kindness of others as the true compassion of the Buddha because it is not mixed in with our own ego.

Amida Buddha is called the Buddha of Immeasurable Life. The Buddha’s life represents the Buddha’s compassion because it never ends and is never interrupted. The Eitaikyo service is a wonderful expression of this unending compassion that we experience in the kindness of others. As we observe the memory of those to whom the Eitaikyo service is dedicated, their lives have given us this opportunity to gather together each year to hear the Dharma and experience the warmth of the Sangha. In this way, even though the people we are remembering today are no longer physically with us, their kind wishes for our happiness continue to touch our lives perpetually, and without end.

 

In gassho,

Falling Short

As we welcome the arrival of autumn, we will be observing our Autumn Ohigan Service on Sunday, September 21 at 9:30 a.m. The Japanese Buddhist observance of Ohigan traditionally focuses on study and reflection on the Six Paramitas, a set of Buddhist virtues that, when perfected, lead us to cross over from “this shore” in the deluded world of birth and death to arrive at the “other shore” of liberation in Nirvana.

The literal meaning of the Sanskrit word paramita is “Crossing over to the Other Shore.” In Chinese and Japanese translation, the term paramita is sometimes rendered as tōhigan到彼岸 “arriving at the other shore.” This imagery of crossing over to the other shore is the basis for Japanese Buddhist celebrations of Ohigan observed at the Spring and Autumn Equinoxes. In many Buddhist communities, it is customary to hold seven-day observances of Ohigan, with the middle day dedicated to gratitude towards one’s ancestors and each of the remaining six days dedicated to one of the Six Paramitas.

The Six Paramitas are listed below along with a brief explanation of the meaning of each:

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Casting off Swords

During the time of the Buddha there was a young man by the name of Ahimsaka (lit. “Harmless One”) who was such an excellent student that his classmates came to resent him and convinced their teacher that he had ambitions to take over the school and drive out the teacher. Knowing Ahimsaka to be an exceptionally reverent and obedient student, the teacher instructed him to bring a gift of 1,000 human fingers each taken from a different body, perhaps in the hope that he would be captured or killed in the process of trying to collect all the fingers.

Despite his reservations, Ahimsaka felt such loyalty to his teacher that he set out to fulfill the grisly request. He chose a high place in a dense forest where he could spot his victims approaching and easily ambush them. In time, he came to be called Angulimala, which literally means “Garland of Fingers,” because he wore the fingers taken from his victims on a string around his neck. As word spread of the murders he was committing, people avoided that forest all together.

When the Buddha passed through that area on a journey, the local people repeatedly warned him to stay away from the forest to avoid being attacked by Angulimala. The Buddha listened to their warnings in silence and carried on his way. When Angulimala saw the Buddha enter the forest he rushed to pounce on him. He chased the Buddha running as fast as he could, but he could not catch up to him. In frustration, Angulimala stopped running and called out to the Buddha, ordering him to stop. The Buddha replied, “I have stopped, Angulimala. You stop.” Perplexed, Angulimala demanded that the Buddha explain how he could claim to have stopped when he was still moving and how could he claim that Angulimala was still moving when it was he who had stopped. The Buddha responded with the following verse:

 

“I have stopped, Angulimala, once & for all, having cast off violence toward all living beings. You, though, are unrestrained toward beings. That’s how I’ve stopped and you haven’t.”

(Angulimala Sutta, Translated from the Pali by Thanissaro Bhikkhu http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/mn/mn.086.than.html)

 

When Angulimala heard these words of truth spoken by the Buddha, he immediately cast his sword and weapons into a pit and humbly asked to be admitted into the Sangha. The Buddha accepted him as a disciple and Angulimala became a living example of the power of the Buddha’s teachings to transform violence into peace. From time to time, people who remembered Angulimala’s past deeds would attack him, but rather than fighting back, Angulimala wished peace and goodness for those who would harm him.

The Buddha teaches that the things we do, say and think are greatly influenced by the force of karma, the vast web of causes and conditions that propel us along on our journey through life. Our true teacher Shinran explained the working of karma to his close Dharma companion Yuien:

 

. . . the Master [Shinran] once asked, “Yuien-bo, do you accept all that I say?”

“Yes I do,” I answered.

“Then will you not deviate from whatever I tell you?” he repeated.

I humbly affirmed this. Thereupon he said, “Now, I want you to kill a thousand people. If you do, you will definitely attain birth [in Amida Buddha’s realm of peace and bliss].”

I responded, “Though you instruct me thus, I’m afraid it is not in my power to kill even one person.”

“Then why did you say that you would follow whatever I told you?”

He continued, “By this you should realize that if we could always act as we wished, then when I told you to kill a thousand people in order to attain birth, you should have immediately done so. But since you lack the karmic cause inducing you to kill even a single person, you do not kill. It is not that you do not kill because your heart is good. In the same way, a person may not wish to harm anyone and yet end up killing a hundred or a thousand people.”

(Collected Works of Shinran, pg. 670-671)

 

Viewed in the light of the Buddha’s wisdom, it becomes clear that there is no such thing as an inherently good or evil person. People commit harmful acts when their minds are clouded by delusion. Likewise, people are able to practice genuine kindness when they see the light of wisdom. No matter how far astray I have been led by the force of my past karma, a single encounter with the compassion of the Buddha has the power to transform my life. Angulimala had the good fortune to live in a time and place where he could meet Sakyamuni Buddha in person. Living in this age 2,500 years after Sakyamuni dwelled in our world, I encounter the great compassion of the Buddha in the Nembutsu. Just as Angulimala turned his life around when he heard the true words spoken by the Sakyamuni Buddha, my life is transformed in the words “Namo Amida Butsu” the voice of great compassion calling me to take refuge in the light of wisdom.

 

In gassho,

Monkey Mind (With gassho to Rev. Myokei Kawamura)

I have always thought of monkeys as exotic and charming animals. There are no wild monkeys in Minnesota where I grew up, but I have encountered several troops of monkeys while cycling on quiet mountain roads in Japan. When I excitedly told my wife about the monkeys I met, she was decidedly less enthusiastic. Having grown up in Japan, monkeys are neither exotic nor charming for her. In areas shared by human and monkey populations, monkeys can become a real nuisance by raiding trash bins or pillaging vegetable gardens.

One of my favorite Buddhist stories describes a monkey that was captured and placed in a cage with six windows. A mischievous little boy discovered the caged monkey and decided to play a mean-spirited trick on it. The little boy gathered six delicious-looking pieces of fruit and placed one in clear view of each of the six windows, just out of reach of the monkey’s short arms. Each time the boy would set out one of those fruits, the monkey would rush over to that window and stretch his arms as far as they would go, contorting his body and waving his paws trying to reach the fruit. Once the boy had set out all six of the fruits, the monkey dashed frantically back and forth between the six windows until it collapsed from exhaustion.

I find that in my day-to-day life, my mind is just like that monkey. Instead of chasing after mangos, bananas, apples or oranges, my mind chases after pleasures that I perceive through the windows of my six sensory organs: my eyes, ears, nose, tongue, skin, and thinking brain. In fact, not only does my mind chase after the things I like, it works hard to avoid the things that I dislike.

I can spend hours on my smartphone looking at photos that my friends post on Facebook, but am quick to avert my eyes when I see an animal that has been hit by a car on the roads I use everyday. My ears perk up when someone complements me, but tune out the moment someone points out one of my shortcomings. When I am biking home from the temple on a hot afternoon I can smell a backyard barbeque from three blocks away, but I fail to notice the smell of my own sweat as I walk through my front door. I crave the familiar Midwestern flavor of deep fried cheese curds, but cringe at the prospect of eating nutritious foods like nattō fermented soy beans or grilled mackerel. I love to turn up the air conditioner on a hot day so my skin is comfortably cool, but will toss and turn in bed if it is too warm and I start to sweat. It is the working of my mind that creates all these likes and dislikes. In William Shakespeare’s words, “there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.” (Hamlet, Act 2, Scene 2)

My minds runs in circles all day long chasing after those things I like and trying to avoid those things I dislike. Eventually, my mind becomes exhausted and flops down on the ground to rest. As I lie there on my back, I notice that the sky above me has been wide open the whole time, filled with possibilities in all directions that I was unable to see because I was too busy chasing after pleasures and running from unpleasantness in those six little windows.

In his final sermon before passing into parinirvana, Sakyamuni Buddha advised his followers “Rely on wisdom, not on the working of the mind.” (Quoted in The Collected Works of Shinran, p. 241) When we rely on the working of our minds we wind up chasing after the pleasures of our six senses and running away from the things we think are unpleasant. When we rely on wisdom, we learn to see beyond those little windows in our mind, and notice the vast sky of possibilities above us. When we learn to stand still and notice the big sky all around us, we will also see that the ground beneath our feet stretches out to the horizon in all directions. When we receive the power of Amida Buddha’s wisdom, we can walk right out of that little cage of our likes and dislikes and enjoy the freedom of a big heart that accepts all possibilities and does not push anything or anyone away.

The nembutsu is the Buddha’s voice of wisdom calling to us, saying, “Hey you, stop running around in that little box of likes and dislikes. Look at that big sky all around you. Everything is just fine as it is. No need to rush about. No need to worry. Namo Amida Butsu.”

 

In gassho,

A Buddha’s Birth

In the springtime, Buddhists throughout the world hold special observances in celebration of the birth of Sakyamuni Buddha, the historical Buddha who lived in Northern India roughly 2,500 years ago. Japanese Buddhist communities celebrate Sakyamuni Buddha’s birth on April 8, which is called Hanamatsuri, or the “Festival of Flowers,” inspired by the traditional account that flowers spontaneously bloomed at the moment when Sakyamuni was born. We hope you will be able to join us at the San Mateo Buddhist Temple for our Hanamatsuri Celebration on Sunday, April 6, 2014 at 9:30 a.m.

Since the time of the Buddha, it has been customary in many Asian cultures for pregnant women to return to their ancestral home to deliver their babies. While on her journey home, the Buddha’s mother Queen Maya stopped to rest in the gardens of Lumbini, a site located in present day Nepal. We are told that while delighting in the beauty of the gardens, she gave birth to her son from her right side while standing up and holding onto the branch of a tree for support. Immediately upon being born, the future Buddha is said to have taken seven steps representing his resolution to transcend the six realms of death and rebirth. It is said that a lotus flower blossomed under each of those seven footsteps. We are told that he then raised one hand to the sky and declared, “As this birth is a buddha’s birth, it is my last birth. Just in this one birth I shall save all!” (Buddhacarita: In Praise of the Buddha’s Acts, translated by Charles Willemen, pg. 4; available online at http://www.bdkamerica.org) Flowers bloomed and rained down as heavenly beings called devas and people of this world paid reverence to him. At that time, two pleasant streams, one warm and one cool, poured down from the sky to bathe the future Buddha.

Although many of the events in this traditional story may be based on events that actually occurred, it is best appreciated as an expression of religious truth, rather than a record of historical fact. For Buddhists, the moment of Sakyamuni’s birth is imbued with marvelous significance because it marks the beginning of the life he lived in our world, during which he realized enlightenment sitting beneath the Bodhi Tree and then dedicated the remaining forty-five years of his life to teaching others the path to freedom from suffering.

During his lifetime, Sakyamuni is said to have taught 84,000 Dharma Gates, providing a variety of teachings according to the needs and temperaments of the people who sought his guidance. Among the vast body of teachings attributed to Sakyamuni, it is up to each person to find the path to freedom from suffering that is best suited to his or her life. I personally find great meaning in the teachings delivered by Sakyamuni Buddha on the Nembutsu and Amida Buddha’s vow to liberate all beings from suffering.

When I encountered the Nembutsu teaching, it spoke so directly to my own life that I felt as if Sakyamuni Buddha came into this world 2,500 years ago just to teach that single Dharma Gate for me. Shinran (1173-1263), the true teacher of the Jodo Shinshu School of Buddhism beautifully expresses this sentiment in the following passage from his Hymn of True Shinjin and the Nembutsu (Shoshinge):

 

Sakyamuni Tathagata appeared in this world Solely to teach the ocean-like Primal Vow of Amida; We, an ocean of beings in an evil age of five defilements, Should entrust ourselves to the Tathagata’s words of truth.

(Collected Works of Shinran, p. 70)

 

Despite my best intentions to live as “a good Buddhist,” practicing mindfulness and compassion, the karmic force of my bad habits leads me astray on a daily basis. Amida Buddha saw that there are foolish people like me in the world, and for that very reason made a commitment to provide a true teaching precisely for those of us who have a heavy burden of karma. We call that commitment to help the most foolish and misguided beings the Primal Vow of Amida Buddha. I may find myself way off track from time to time, but that’s okay. There’s no need to beat myself up about it. The light of Amida Buddha’s wisdom is always shining into my life, illuminating my true path. In the light of the Buddha’s wisdom, I see that even when I think I am way off track, I have actually never left my true path. I find great peace of mind in this Nembutsu teaching, and so for me, when Sakyamuni Buddha taught the vast Dharma gate of Amida’s Primal Vow he fulfilled his promise to save all beings—including me—from suffering.

 

In gassho,

Finding Refuge in the Territory of the Dharma

In the Buddhist traditions of Japan, February 15 is the day that Nirvana Day is traditionally observed in commemoration of Sakyamuni Buddha’ s passing into parinirvana, the state of great tranquility realized at the end of life by one who has crossed over the ocean of birth and death. At the San Mateo Buddhist Temple, we will be holding our annual Nirvana Day Service on Sunday, February 9 at 9:30 a.m. We hope you will be able to join us for this service as we remember the life of Sakyamuni Buddha and reflect on our own journey to final liberation from suffering.

In the Buddhacarita: In Praise of Buddha’s Acts, an ancient record of the Buddha’ s life, it is written that when the Buddha was 80 years old and dwelling near the city of Vaisali, an unusual series of earthquakes occurred. Startled by this strange occurrence, the Buddha’ s disciple Ananda asked the Buddha why this was happening. Sakyamuni Buddha responded by saying that he would only remain alive for three more months and that the earthquakes were the result of the Buddha’ s abandoning all remaining ties to his life in this world.

Upon hearing this news, Ananda became deeply disheartened. Ananda was aware of the truth of impermanence, having on many occasions heard the Buddha teach that all those that come together will one day be separated. Nevertheless, he and the other disciples of the Buddha who had not yet realized perfect enlightenment worried about how they would be able to continue their study of the Dharma without the Buddha as their teacher and guide. At that time Ananda lamented, “In the great darkness of ignorance, beings have all lost their direction. The Tathagata (Buddha) has lit the lamp of wisdom but it will be suddenly extinguished. How will they escape?”

Observing Ananda’ s distress, the Buddha offered him the following words of comfort:

“As a teacher, I have never held anything from beings. Develop a notion of revulsion [for samsara], well established in your own territory!

“When you know your own territory, you must be attentive and diligently apply yourself! Practice alone and in tranquility, and reside in solitude! Do not follow beliefs in anything else!
“When you know the territory of the Law (Dharma), you are certain to clearly see the lamp of wisdom. It can dispel delusion . . . Having obtained the excellent Law, one is free from any self and free from [‘ I’ and] ‘ mine.’”(Buddhacarita: In Praise of the Buddha’s Acts, translated by Charles Willemen, pg. 168; available online at http://www.bdkamerica.org/digital/dBET_T0192_Buddhacarita_2009.pdf)

In commenting on these words of the Buddha, the Buddhist scholar Hajime Nakamura explains that the word “territory” here originally refers to a place of high ground where one can take refuge during a flood. The Buddha is telling Ananda that he must determine for himself what is true and wise, so that he may have a well-established refuge in his heart and mind that he can turn to for guidance in times of difficulty.

The guidance of a wise friend can be of great help to us as we face challenges in life, but in the end, we must decide for ourselves what our true path is, without just going along with what the people around us are doing or saying. For this reason, the Buddha teaches that our most reliable refuge can be found in the Dharma. The Dharma that the Buddha taught freely without holding anything back is the high ground to which we can return and get a clear perspective when the flood waters of confusion seem to be rising all around us.

From that elevated territory of the Dharma, we can clearly see the lamp of wisdom shining into our lives and illuminating our true path. Even in the times that we are unable to clearly see that lamp of wisdom, it never ceases to shine into our lives, guiding us to the higher ground of true understanding. In the Nembutsu, we receive that lamp of wisdom as the compassionate vow of Amida Buddha to guide all beings to liberation. As our true teacher Shinran (1173-1263) writes in his Notes on the Inscriptions on Sacred Scrolls: “Amida’s Vow is a great torch in the long night of ignorance. We should reflect that, although our wisdom-eyes are dark, we need not despair.” (Collected Works of Shinran, p. 516)

In gassho,

Family and Friendship

     On Wednesday, December 11, 2013, my wife Shoko gave birth to a healthy baby boy Shoma (pronounced “SHOW-ma”) Jesse Adams-Ichinomiya at Mills-Peninsula Medical Center in Burlingame.  Throughout the delivery and post-partum period, Shoko and Shoma received excellent care from the doctors, nurses, and other staff at Mills-Peninsula.  In a time when we hear so much in our public discourse about the problems facing the medical system in this country, the conscientious and compassionate treatment that our family has received inspires a deep feeling of gratitude in us for the quality of care that we have access to.
     When people first learn Shoma’s name, they are often curious about its meaning.  In Japanese, the name Shoma 證眞 is written with two Chinese characters: “Sho 證” and “ma 眞.”  In the “Verses in Praise of the Buddha (Sanbutsuge)” from The Sutra on the Buddha of Immeasurable Life Delivered by Sakyamuni Buddha, the character “Sho 證” appears in Dharmakara Bodhisattva’s request to have Lokesvararaja Buddha verify his aspiration to become a Buddha and guide all beings to liberation from suffering.  Sho 證 may be translated as “verify” or “realize.”   The character “ma 眞” means “truth,” and refers to the truth of the Buddha’s teachings as a guide for living with wisdom and compassion.  Shoko and I chose these two characters for the name of our second son as an expression of our wish that throughout Shoma’s journey through life, he will realize what is real and true in each situation he encounters.
     Shoma’s middle name Jesse comes from his great-great-great grandfather Jesse Melver Adams, Sr. (1844-1909), who lived in Bradley County, Arkansas.  In writings preserved by historians in Bradley County, one of Jesse’s good friends says he “knew Mr. Adams from his boyhood and can say that he never knew a better man or had a better friend.”  With the arrival of Shoma in our family, our first son Ryoma now has a brother.  As one of our good Dharma friends commented after Shoma’s birth, “Later on the two boys will have fun . . . as well as “fights.”  It brings us great joy to know that Ryoma and Shoma will enjoy a lifelong friendship as brothers, so we chose Shoma’s middle name inspired by a man who was known and loved as an exceptional friend.
     As there is no established custom of monastic practice in the Jodo Shinshu Buddhist tradition, our practice of the Dharma is deeply rooted in family life.  For those of us who practice Buddhism in the midst of home life, our family is our Sangha.  When I reflect the following words from a letter written by our true teacher Shinran (1173-1263), I am reminded of how living in the nembutsu deepens our feelings of appreciation and affection for those close companions in our lives: “Signs of long years of saying the nembutsu and aspiring for birth can be seen in the change in the heart that had been bad and in the deep warmth for friends and fellow-practicers. . . .” (Collected Works of Shinran, p. 551).  Just as our family is our Sangha, we have found that the San Mateo Buddhist Temple Sangha is our family.  We thank you for all the kindness and generous care you shared with us in 2013.  We look forward to deepening our friendship in the Dharma in the coming year!
In gassho,

Family and Friendship

On Wednesday, December 11, 2013, my wife Shoko gave birth to a healthy baby boy Shoma (pronounced “SHOW-ma”) Jesse Adams-Ichinomiya at Mills-Peninsula Medical Center in Burlingame.  Throughout the delivery and post-partum period, Shoko and Shoma received excellent care from the doctors, nurses, and other staff at Mills-Peninsula.  In a time when we hear so much in our public discourse about the problems facing the medical system in this country, the conscientious and compassionate treatment that our family has received inspires a deep feeling of gratitude in us for the quality of care that we have access to.

When people first learn Shoma’s name, they are often curious about its meaning.  In Japanese, the name Shoma 證眞 is written with two Chinese characters: “Sho 證” and “ma 眞”  In the “Verses in Praise of the Buddha (Sanbutsuge)” from The Sutra on the Buddha of Immeasurable Life Delivered by Sakyamuni Buddha, the character “Sho 證” appears in Dharmakara Bodhisattva’s request to have Lokesvararaja Buddha verify his aspiration to become a Buddha and guide all beings to liberation from suffering.  Sho 證 may be translated as “verify” or “realize.”  The character “ma 眞” means “truth,” and refers to the truth of the Buddha’s teachings as a guide for living with wisdom and compassion.  Shoko and I chose these two characters for the name of our second son as an expression of our wish that throughout Shoma’s journey through life, he will realize what is real and true in each situation he encounters.

Shoma’s middle name Jesse comes from his great-great-great grandfather Jesse Melver Adams, Sr. (1844-1909), who lived in Bradley County, Arkansas.  In writings preserved by historians in Bradley County, one of Jesse’s good friends says he “knew Mr. Adams from his boyhood and can say that he never knew a better man or had a better friend.”  With the arrival of Shoma in our family, our first son Ryoma now has a brother. As one of our good Dharma friends commented after Shoma’s birth, “Later on the two boys will have fun . . . as well as “fights.”  It brings us great joy to know that Ryoma and Shoma will enjoy a lifelong friendship as brothers, so we chose Shoma’s middle name inspired by a man who was known and loved as an exceptional friend.

As there is no established custom of monastic practice in the Jodo Shinshu Buddhist tradition, our practice of the Dharma is deeply rooted in family life.  For those of us who practice Buddhism in the midst of home life, our family is our Sangha.  When I reflect the following words from a letter written by our true teacher Shinran (1173-1262), I am reminded of how living in the nembutsu deepens our feelings of appreciation and affection for those close companions in our lives: “Signs of long years of saying the nembutsu and aspiring for birth can be seen in the change in the heart that had been bad and in the deep warmth for friends and fellow-practicers. . . .”  (Collected Works of Shinran, p. 551).  Just as our family is our Sangha, we have found that the San Mateo Buddhist Temple Sangha is our family.  We thank you for all the kindness and generous care you shared with us in 2013.  We look forward to deepening our friendship in the Dharma in the coming year!

 

In gassho,